On the shallowest level, it may seem that all men are interested in is bra size and a nice butt. Fortunately, that’s not really all they’re interested in, even if it seems that way at first glance. Yes, physical appearance is important to men; physical attraction is, after all, that provides the initial impulse to get to know someone. However, when it comes to looking for the one they want to marry, men have just as many considerations as do women about what they want in their mate. About 90% of it has absolutely nothing to do with appearance. What most men like in women is very similar to what women like in men; here are some of the top things most men want in the women they’re going to marry.
1. Attentive & Sympathetic
When a guy vents about things that have gone wrong, it’s usually not so that you can help them fix it. They just want to get it off their chest; and they want the woman they love to actually listen to them. When you’re really listening, it shows. What men like in women is an attentive listener who isn’t going to try to fix everything, but instead is going to be there to listen and support him at the end of the day. Give him real attention; and offer sympathy, not suggestions.
When you have the ability to be spontaneous, you can roll with the changes of life that affect everyone occasionally. Not only does spontaneity give you the ability to be flexible in life, but men love to see the woman they love being a little unguarded and spontaneous, even if it entails a bit of silliness. What men like in women is to hear them sing (even badly) and watch them dance around the house without being inhibited. Men like to see women being themselves, because it lets them know the woman they love trusts them.
3. Self-Confident and Fulfilled
What men like in women is self-confidence. If you’re confident in yourself and your abilities, that’s a very powerful and attractive thing for a lot of men. Fulfillment is also important; even if you’re not doing everything you want, don’t gripe about it! Enjoy your life and work to improve your fulfillment and self-confidence, because most men love women who are happy with themselves.
4. Culinary Skills
This one is a little sexist, but there is some truth to the old adage that the quickest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach! Being a good cook is an important thing for a lot of men, simply because a lot of men don’t ever learn how to cook (or simply don’t like cooking, even if they know how).