You’re about to embark upon one of the most important and adventurous journeys of a lifetime, marriage. Of course, you’re excited but this is no easy task and the journey down the aisle can be a bit challenging for many brides.
Therefore, it’s only natural that as a bride, you have a few hidden fears and doubts.
To help you overcome those doubts and fears, we have composed five “what if” questions that almost every bride asks herself before saying “I DO.”
1. What If We Lose The Spark?
Average numbers reveal that most marriages take place with couples in their 30’s and 70 is the average life expectancy. This means that most couples will spend about 50 years as husband and wife, if “til death do us part” is honored.
Consider This: How many times have you worried about getting bored with your parents, BFF or children? In most cases, these are people who are in your lives for ages and there is rarely any thought given to boredom in these relationships. Marriage to the person you’ve chosen to love shouldn’t be any different.
2. What If He Falls Out Of Love With Me?
Surely, this hasn’t crossed your mind because it would be just about the worst thing that could possibly happen. However, this is a worry that shouldn’t be pondered because there is really no way to predict that it will happen or prevent it from happening. Being the best wife of all time that gets everything right isn’t always enough to keep your mate happy. It’s simply horrific and this makes this doubt completely understandable. The important thing to remember is that he loves you right now because you are who you are. Enjoy the moment and live the moment one day at a time.
3. What If I Fall Out Of Love With My Spouse?
What could your spouse do that may cause you to fall out of love with him? There is a way to prevent this from happening. Keep your guard up with relationships that have the potential to turn emotional. That friendly guy at work could wreak havoc in your marriage if you don’t remain in control. Safeguard your heart by not letting emotional relationships enter your life and this could save your marriage.
4. Should I Have Married My Ex?
To put it plainly, if so, you would have married him? This is a very common question that many brides ponder when preparing to devote their life to someone else. If you need help answering this question, call on a friend that was there for you when you were going through difficult times with your ex and they’ll help you find that answer.
5. What If Something Awful Occurs In Our Lives That Drives A Wedge Between Us?
There have been many cases of divorce after terrible things happen in the life of a couple. Life has a way of catching you by surprise and throwing unexpected curveballs. Stop worrying about things that haven’t happened, you could one day lose your job without warning but that doesn’t stop you from going every day. Build a strong union with your mate that is sure to overcome those unexpected obstacles.
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