If you’ve ever tested a partner to make sure they were going to stick around, you’re not alone. Testing can cause irreparable damage to your relationship and could end it. If you’re testing his love, you may be looking for a reason to end the relationship, hoping that he’ll fail your test. You might be feeling vulnerable in some way. Whatever the reason, it’s important for you and your relationship that you learn to communicate with your partner, even if it means you’ll be uncomfortably exposed.