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77 Best Wedding Toasts For Different Types Of Guests

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Wedding toasts contribute a lot to the overall atmosphere of the wedding.

Love, sincerity, romance…

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It can be difficult to put your feelings into words.

We have collected the best wedding toast examples to inspire you. Find your perfect toast here!

Wedding Toast Etiquette

There is a certain etiquette to follow when writing your toast. This can guide you and act as tips that you can use in writing some of the best toasts this wedding season. Use the following when writing your toast, and you will find writing toast for wedding much easier than expected.

  • Keep it brief

One of the rules for writing a wedding toast, is to keep it brief. While you might have a lot to say, you will find that having a short wedding toast is much better than a long one. To avert boredom on the part of your guests, anything under two to three minutes is perfect.

  • Rehearse

Practise saying your toast a few times after it is written. Even better in front of a mirror. This will help you greatly when it is time to do it live. If you build your toast around a quote for wedding toast, this could help keep it memorable and easy to recall when you need it.

  • Catch and keep your audience’s attention

Speak clearly and audibly. And be it with toast quotes or a joke, insert something that will keep your guests attentive. You don’t want to struggle to be heard or try to speak over people already talking to one another.

  • Remember to raise your glass

Whether you are a drinker or not, remember to raise your glass to the couple at the end of your toast. Better to raise an empty glass than refuse to participate at all, at the end of your simple wedding toast.

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Do’s and Don’ts of Wedding Toasts

What to include and what better to avoid in a wedding toast?

  1. Do get everyone’s attention. Do it tactfully! If you choose to do so by clinking at a champagne glass, it can be quite annoying.
  2. Don’t make it long. Keep it as short, as possible. Speaking for two to three minutes should be the maximum.
  3. Don’t say anything embarrassing! A wedding toast is not the time to swear, remember exes, or tell the stories of the past failures. Don’t make everyone regret they gave you the mic!
  4. Be sincere – your words should be truly heartfelt.
  5. Don’t forget to raise your glass as you say the toast.
  6. Do practice your toast at home – this way you will deliver your toast more smoothly.

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Wedding Toast Order

There is also a traditional order that wedding toasts follow. Tradition isn’t set in stone however, and you could rewrite the rules to fit your own wedding situation as you see fit. Below we have the simple order for wedding reception toast. This should be quite similar for traditional and non traditional weddings.

  1. The best man is usually the first to give a toast.
  2. The maid of honor gives her toast next.
  3. After this, the host of the event, usually the mother or father of the bride, gives their toast.
  4. The parents of the groom may or may not follow with their toast.
  5. At this time, a few select gusts might go next.
  6. In some settings, the bride or groom, or the couple close with a toast of their own.

Any guests who would like to say something, would usually notify the couple a few weeks before the wedding so that they can be added to the queue.

However, if during the reception a number of guests are giving impromptu speeches, then it wouldn’t be out of line to join them in saying something heartfelt of your own.

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Classic & Traditional Literary Wedding Toasts

If you are looking for some wedding toast ideas, you might want to use some ready-made examples to boost your imagination. This list of classical and traditional literary wedding toasts is perfect for celebrating a wedding.

These toasts will give you some wedding toast inspiration, or just help you to spice up what you’ve already written.

  • Watching (bride) and (groom) together makes my heart sing with joy. I am proud to be a part of this special day. Let us toast to the newlyweds, who make us believe true love still exists. (Bride) and (groom,) may you find joy with each other each and every day from this day forward. My sincere congratulations! Remember this special day, as it is the day that your life together as husband and wife starts. To (bride) and (groom,) may you always find comfort, strength and endless happiness in each other. Please join me as I raise a glass to these two newlyweds.

  • “To love another person is to see the face of God.” — Les Miserables by Victor Hugo

  • “There is only one happiness in life: To love and be loved.” — George Sand

  • “Love her. The way you do just the one time.” — Red Wind by Raymond Chandler

  • “Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” — Antoine de Saint-Exupery

  • ‘It’s now or never, isn’t it?’—Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

  • “We laugh and laugh, and nothing can ever be sad, no one can be lost, or dead, or far away: right now we are here, and nothing can mar our perfection, or steal the joy of this perfect moment.”—The Time Traveler’s Wife

  • “Health and life to you; The woman of your choice for you; A child every year for you; And may you die in Ireland.” —Irish proverb

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Short Wedding Toasts To The Bride & Groom

You need to toast the bride and groom?

You might want to tell them everything you feel like sharing. Your overflowing emotions are quite natural if you are close to the couple. Still, make sure your wedding toast is not too long. After all, this is a very special day for the couple, and you have to help them keep to the general timeline.

Here are some short wedding toast examples to help you:

  • “Here’s to the new husband and here’s to the new wife. May they remain lovers for all of life.”

  • “Let your love last forever, and be longer than the last sunset.”

  • ‘Two are better than one.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9

  • “I found the one whom my soul loves.” — Song of Solomon 3:4

  • “Here’s to the groom, a man who was able to keep his head, but lost his heart.”

  • “Follow the way of love.” — I Corinthians 14:1

  • “Deep love is stronger than life.”—Jewish proverb

  • “Nothing is real but dreams and love.” —Anna de Noailles

  • “Where there is love, there is no darkness.”—Burundi proverb

  • “Here’s to the newlyweds – may these two share everything with each other… and that includes the chores!”

Shakespearean Wedding Toast

There are lots of examples of wedding toast speeches so you might want to be more original.

Shakespearean wedding toasts include the pieces of works by the great poet himself and those that have the same feeling about them. They add some Medieval atmosphere, which might be great for a boho or thematical celebration. After all, this period of literature is all about romance.

  • “God, the best maker of all marriages, Combine your hearts in one.” — King Henry V, Act V

  • “Doubt thou the stars are fire, Doubt the sun doth move, Doubt truth to be a liar but never doubt thy love.” — Hamlet

  • “Love is a smoke raised with the fume of sighs; Being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers’ eyes; Being vexed, a sea nourished with loving tears. What is it else? A madness most discreet, A choking gall, and a preserving sweet.” — Romeo and Juliet

  • “May a flock of blessings light upon thy back.” – Romeo and Juliet

  • ‘Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind, And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind.’ – A Midsummer Night’s Dream”May thy life be long and happy, thy cares and sorrows few; And the many friends around thee prove faithful, fond and true. May your voyage through life be as happy and as free as the dancing waves on the deep blue sea.”

  • “But rich or poor, quick or slow, may you know nothing but happiness from this day forward.”

  • “For each petal on the shamrock, this brings a wish your way. Good health, good luck, and happiness for today and every day.”

  • “May the light of friendship guide your paths together. And may the laughter of children grace the halls of your home. May the joy of living for one another trip a smile from your lips a twinkle from your eye.”

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Movie Wedding Speech Quotes

Want some more original wedding toasts examples?

Think about movie quotes!

You can include the quotes from some of the bride and groom’s favorite movies. Movie quotes are especially nice if you have a movie-themed wedding. Surprise the bride and groom with a well-known quote. These kind of toasts are more memorable and help create an atmosphere of love and romance.

  • Casablanca: ‘Here’s looking at you, kid.’

  • When Harry Met Sally: ‘When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.’

  • Love Actually: “To me, you are perfect”

  • Bram Stoker’s Dracula: ‘I have crossed oceans of time to find you’

  • Serendipity: ‘It’s like at that moment the whole universe existed just to bring us together.’

  • My Best Friend’s Wedding: ‘Choose me. Marry me. Let me make you happy.’

  • Moulin Rouge: ’The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love, and be loved in return.’

  • Bridget Jones’s Baby: ‘Sometimes you love a person because of all the reasons they’re not like you. And sometimes you love a person just because they feel like home.’

  • The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring: ‘I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.’

  • Meet Joe Black: ‘Love is passion, obsession, someone you can’t live without. If you don’t start with that, what are you going to end up with?’

  • Good Will Hunting: “It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other.”

From Best Man & Maid Of Honor

The best man and the maid of honor are the leaders of the bridal party. The best man is leading the wedding – and his speech is something a lot of people are looking forward to. He has to follow the organizational part, keep in mind all the little things. It is also his responsibility to toast the bride.

The same goes for the maid of honor. She is the bride’s best friend, so she is the one to toast the groom.

Here are a couple of examples of best man and bridesmaid toast examples:

  • “Eve was very jealous. And, although there were only two in paradise when Adam came home too late, she counted his ribs just in case. We wish our young not to be so jealous, and her husband – not to give an occasion to count the ribs!”

  • “In the hearts of our young people, the fire of love burns. This is a sacred fire. So, let’s fill our glasses and drink to ensure that it never goes out in their hearts!”

  • “No matter how many years passes – be it 10 or 20 years of family life, – I want the groom to lose his head, but not his reason, looking at his lovely wife.”

  • “Friends! I offer to drink for a kiss! This is the idea that a man came up with because he did not find any other way to close a mouth to a woman.”

  • “They say it’s not a marvel that two people are different, but it’s a marvel is they can live together so happily. Live marvelously, our dear newlyweds!”

  • “A real woman can make a man think that he is the winner, though she was the one who was victorious. Look at our groom. He looks like a winner. Therefore, let us drink to his beautiful victory and the woman who allowed herself to be defeated, the bride.”

  • “Rumor has it in a perfect family the wife does not pay attention to where the money comes from, and the husband does not notice where it is going. May you have a truly perfect family!”

  • “What is the difference between a fairy tale and the reality? A fairy tale is when the prince marries a snake, and she becomes a princess. Reality is quite the contrary. Let your life together be a fairy tale!”

  • “When a man is persistent, he will certainly achieve what a woman wants. Let’s drink to ensure that the purposefulness of men and the vagaries of women coincide!”

  • “May the two of you be poor in misfortune and rich in blessings. Here is to a wonderful wedding day and an even more marvelous marriage.”

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Parent Wedding Toasts

The father of the bride usually starts parental wedding toasts. For the newlyweds, their parents’ blessing is extremely important.

We believe that wedding toasts father of the groom examples also proves helpful.

Your children are getting married, so it is natural to give them some wise advice on family life they are about to start together.

  • “Dear children! Let your marriage be happy! Live in friendship and harmony. We always want happiness to be long, and therefore I wish you happiness to be eternal, let your love burn bright, and friends remain true! Let’s drink to a happy union!”

  • “To live in love and harmony until the silver wedding, the wife must have a golden character, and the husband – an iron endurance. So, let’s drink to a reliable alloy of two metals, for the fusion of the souls of the newlyweds!”

  • “The meaning of life is a family, this is our destiny, in fact, for it is for the sake of the family and our children that live! Let your life be happy, and the smiles and joy of your loved ones warm your hearts with warmth and comfort!”

  • “The secret of a successful marriage lies in one popular wisdom: you do not need to love as much as possible, just as long as possible! So keep going, let your passion burn through the years!”

  • “Today we wish you happiness. May the Lord protect you from the storm and bad weather, bad people, from pain and illness, from hardships. May God grant you a lot of passion, ardor, and love! And a lot of happiness!”

  • “A spouse is a support in life. Strengthening the pillars, we extend our life. So, let us drink to the spouses and for them to always love and support each other.”

  • ‘I want to see you grow old together. Count each other’s wrinkles as the years pass by. See who losses all of the teeth and who will need the help of the walking stick first.’

  • “Always remember the most important four words for a successful marriage: ‘I’ll do the dishes.'”

  • 1 John 3:18 – “Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.”

  • Genesis 2:24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Sister’s Wedding Toast

Preparing a toast to your sister may not be easy. However, remembering the special bond you share, all you need do is put it in words. Try to summarize what she means to you and the joy that you wish for her. You could even say a toast from favorite movie you both share for something unique.

See some samples below.

  • “[Bride,] for as long as I have known you, you have always been someone who has been able to find the joy in everything. I am so glad that you can share this ability to see the joy in everything with [groom.] May your life together be joyous and full of love.”

  • “Here is to the groom with a bride so fair, and here is to a bride with a groom who is so rare.”

  • “May you always have walls for the wind, a roof for the rain, tea by the fire, laughter to cheer you up, and everything that your heart desires. Congratulations [bride] and [groom.]”

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Funny Wedding Toasts

A bit of humor can never hurt. Laughter is essential for every wedding, it helps to reduce the stress of the importance of the event. Examples of funny wedding toasts will be especially helpful for the best man, as his toast is supposed to be more entertaining than the rest.

Don’t be afraid to bring a little fun into the otherwise serious celebration with these funny quotes.

  • “They say that in a good marriage, the husband is the head, and the wife is the heart. So, let us drink to the fact that our young people did not know in life either headaches or heartaches!”

  • ‘Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.’ – Albert Einstein

  • ‘Love is sharing your popcorn.’ – Charles Schultz

  • ‘It is impossible to love and be wise.’ – Francis Bacon

  • ‘True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked.’- Erich Segal

  • ‘It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.’ – Rita Rudner

  • ‘Being married means mostly shouting “What?” from other rooms.’

  • ‘Marry a man your own age; as your beauty fades, so will his eyesight.’— Phyllis Diller

  • ‘Love is a lot like a backache: it doesn’t show up on X-rays, but you know it’s there.’ — George Burns

  • ‘All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.’ — Charles Schulz

Religious Wedding Toasts

If you’ve been wondering how to end a wedding toast, you can always add a bit of spirituality. It’s up to you to decide on whether religious wedding toasts are appropriate, depending on your and the couple’s religious beliefs. Bible love quotes make timeless wedding toast quotes.

Take a look at the examples and get inspired.

  • Song of Solomon 4:9: “You have captivated my heart, my sister, my bride; you have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace.”

  • Galatians 5:13 “Through love serve one another.”

  • Song of Solomon 8:7 “Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away.”

  • Corinthians 13:4-5: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.”

  • John 3:16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.”

  • 1 John 4:18-19 “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We love because he first loved us.”

  • Corinthians 13 “If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.”

  • Corinthians 13:13: “And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.”

  • Proverbs 10:12 “Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.”

  • Romans 12:9 “Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.”

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Wedding Rehearsal Dinner Toast

Similar to a wedding reception, but smaller, the rehearsal dinner usually has only close friends and family. Wedding toast jokes surface quite often at such intimate gatherings, or even wedding toast advice from loved ones. Below are a few sample toast for wedding rehearsal dinner.

  • “Watching [bride] and [groom] together has renewed my faith in true love. I am so honored to be a part of this special day. Let us toast to the two people who have brought all of us in this room here today.”

  • “May the two of you be poor in misfortune and rich in blessings. Here is to a wonderful wedding day and an even more marvelous marriage.”

  • “Even before this day, I have seen [bride] and [groom] fall in love over and over many times. That is the recipe for a successful and happy marriage. A toast to you both, I know I speak for everyone in this room when I say that we all wish you a long, healthy, and happy life together.”

Wedding Anniversary Toast

Below are sample wedding anniversary toasts for that couple that has braved a number of years together. Toasts are not for weddings alone, and some of these can be used as wedding anniversary toast for parents, for friends or even siblings.

  • “To a couple that we all know, admire, and love with all our hearts. We all wish the best for you and we toast to your health and happiness.”

  • “Here’s to the husband and here’s to the wife. May the two of you continue to remain lovers for life.”

  • “As you celebrate this happy day in your life, remember that the best days are yet to come. In the meantime, let us raise a glass to your marriage and to your health and happiness.”

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What To Do While Wedding Toasts Are Going On?

What should you do while the toasts?

Since the moment the speaker draws everyone’s attention, you should sit, smile, stop talking and put cutlery on the edge of the plate. Only when the toast is finished, you raise your glass and make a sip. A glass of champagne is usually drained to the bottom; a glass of wine can last several times.

The couple in their wedding toast speech should thank their wedding party, the hosts, and everyone for attending the wedding.

Don’t forget to thank each other and say how excited you are to officially begin your lives together.

Finish your toast with a kiss.

Wedding toasts are very important, and they give you a perfect chance to express your feelings. Do not hesitate to use some help. We hope that our article has given you some ideas for your perfect wedding toast.

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